I do not write this to be cruel or judgmental. And I certainly don’t want to hurt anyone. To the contrary, I want to help. But I do write with a sense of urgency, both to the nation and to confused individuals like Demi Lovato, the latest to identify as non-binary and want to be called “they.” To the nation, I say this: Wake up! We are losing touch with reality and engaging in dangerous semantic and ideological games. Worse still, we are not providing the real help that struggling people need. You do not just have a man being named Woman of the Year. You do not just have a white woman who identifies as black. You have a father of 7 who identifies as a 6-year-old girl. You have a man who identifies as a dog named “Boomer.” You have a young lady who believes she is a cat trapped in a woman’s body. You have a man who has his ears removed because he identifies as a parrot. And you have a man who changed his identity to female but who has now had “her ears and nose REMOVED to transform into a ‘dragon lady’ with scales, a forked tongue and a horned skull.” But why not? More power to him/her/it! If that’s what he/she/it perceives himself/herself/itself to be, why not?